Well!!! I got pregnant immediately after marriage and the very next year before the milestone of our 1st wedding anniversary, Allah blessed me with the most beautiful relationship and the the most adorable baby my son Muhammad Aarub.
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| Immediately after our marriage |
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| My little angel Aarub |
I had C-section and initially as per the custom of our society i stayed at my mamas house, tried to understand my lil angel from her point of view, when he wakes up, when would he sleep back again, i was possessive and literally the only one concerned with guidance from my mama (his nano)
i was called back home before my so called (CHHILLA) 40 days ended and there i was in my husbands house vd my in laws. Alright it was initially very calming and relaxing to be back at my home and things. My mama-in-law (his dado) is a real sweet being and helped me cope up and out of postpartum depressions or mood swings.
My husband initially was very corporative but problems with men in our society let me sleep i have to go to office tomorrow thing often started to come up. Later in few months things got a bit chronic as he started shouting at me on unintentional mistakes committed as per my baby. Then the title of a weak kid was given to Aarub later within the 1st year period comparing him with my other kids in the family. Not only this our sexual life was also affetced by all the sleeplessness and depression. I couldn't fulfill his needs at time and got bashed. All this time with ups and downs in my life my husbands behaviour and language was getting abusive, though i experience some of his tantrums during my pregnancy too but i didnt realize it'll prolong aft the baby will be born too. But i had patience of bearing all this and i did. During this time my husband also lost his job and stayed unemployed for about 1 year. But anyways been there lived it through and bear it all. Alhamdullilah for everything we have been through because through this journey i learnt alot and now i know how to handle most of the situation with his tantrumic nature. But during all this his relationship with our lil baby was very much loving.
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| Aarub with his baba |
Back to my son, he made his way into our hearts and our lives v swiftly within no time this loving child has become a heartthrob of all the family members. Now he goes to school MashaAllah and loves rhymes, hugging his mama and Alhamdullilah potty trained too. His fine motoring skills are way better and ahead than many children of his age. plus his brain works day and night to carry out all kinds of naughtiness we can imagine. His hugs and trying to be sweet with me is just the thing revitalizes me.
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| Aarub with his mama |
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Life is complete with family
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