things don't go as planned

Well pretty common thing to say but for me its been like that forever; my things never go the way i plan them... i might be accompanying so many significant others in this as well...

• Starting with the school days; u wish to be someone important around that place but fate only allows u to get ditched or made fun of by those popular ones. A classmate u have crush on r few times found hooking up wid ur best frnd n not at all talking to u; ur teachers out of no where have some serious issues wid u and u cud never come in their good books... HUH those reasons r enuff to keep u away from ur wish and say, "things didn't go as planned"
• College life comes where u r grown up; still finding ways to become mature enuff when u r not and during that time u think of getting into all the activities around and being an individual; who doesn't need anybody's support. well the truth is, thats what u have planned and at the end u might end up sitting on the first seat; becoming a complete nerdy n geeky package only studying where ur class fellows make fun of u behind ur back... yeah not quite what was planned!!!!
• u might have plenty of time to construct or shape up ur avatar for university; well ppl usually come up to be somebody who is perfect and all rounder, choosing subject of ur choice and urself strong enuff to handle any mess ppl plot and having a complete fun oriented social circle ever... BUT u turn out to be wid ppl similar to u; who r not courageous enuff to let u live individually and ur identity vanishes... and the lively, cherishing, enthusiasm absorbs out of ur life... and till the university ends u end up having a big fight wid all the similar ppl u loved to be wid...
• Life begins when ur profession does; so after ur result u end up planning whole career graph and placing it by implementing on ur life... but delay in job calls, on going economic crisis and unemployment makes u end up juggling ur career map completely... thinking whether to go by plan or by where fate takes u...??? again giving up the hope thinking that history would repeat itself and things will not go as planned. 

Now bring it on life m ready for any challenge u throw at me coz i m done being fearful about not going according to the plans bcoz i know now that 'things actually don't go as planned'